人之所以痛苦，往往是因为追求错误，或者是在追求一些不属于他的东西。

人之所以痛苦，往往是因为追求错误，或者是在追求一些不属于他的东西。

love is like a oil lamp, to keep it burning, u have to put oil

Love till it hurts

I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.


~Mother Teresa

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We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find

Love is patient, love is kind

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."
-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
 
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words.



We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you.'


We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say.
And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

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Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes... just be an illusion

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"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have."


~Anonymous

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Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So... Love the people who treat you right. And love the ones who don't.

Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!

Robert Frost's - The Road Less Travelled

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,


And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveller, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;



Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,



And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.



I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference

sometimes, you gotta learn to love what's good for you

i Don't watch or read new mooon or eclipise
 However i find this rather meaningful.

In the movie "New Moon", Charlie Swan: Can I ask you something? Hanging out with Jake seems to take your mind off things for a bit, doesn't it? You know sometimes, you gotta learn to love what's good for you, you know what I mean?

Maybe time to start reading again..

爱该怎么说。。。就这样吧。。静静的。。。

爱该怎么说。。。就这样吧。。静静的。。。

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“It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” ~Alfred Lord Tennyson

Next Stop Happiness

A moment of thought....

does such a man exist?

hmmm

不要为不在乎你的人掉眼泪 :''(

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You can't expect everyone to be the same as you , as you can't hold someone else right hand using your right hand and walk together.

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“If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place.”




—Nora Roberts, fiction author

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Shoot for the moon and sometimes you might just hit a star. But that's alright because a star could light the way

:)

Ingredient for happy relationship

1. Start with big bowl of Trust
2. Pour a cupfull of Patience
3. Add a dash of Forgiveness
4. Stir in spoonful of Kindness
5. Sprinkle a palmful of Encouragement
6. Sweeten with plenty of Couple Time
7. Throw in some slices of Appreciation
8. Spice things up with lots of surprises.
9. Top it all with generous serving of passion.


True love is falling in love many times with the same person

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"If you wanna know how much i miss you, try to catch rain drops.The ones you catch is how much you miss me, and the ones you miss is how much i miss you."

trying hard not to show my emotions that easily. Back to my old self.

ice ;)



very cute bear, another reason to smile :)

Burnt Biscuit

Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner everynow and then. And I remember one night inparticular when she had made breakfast after along, hard day at work. On that evening, mom placeda plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burntbiscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting tosee if anyone noticed.Yet all my dad did was reachfor his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how myday was at school. I don't remember what I told himthat night, but I do remember watching him smearbutter and jelly on that biscuit and eat everybite!

When I got up from the table that evening, Iremember hearing my mom apologizeto my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll neverforget what he said: "Honey, I love burntbiscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good nightand I asked him if he reallyliked his biscuits burnt. He wrapped me in his armsand said, "Your Momma putin a hard day at work today and she's real tired.And besides - a little burntbiscuit never hurt anyone!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things.....andimperfect people. I'm notthe best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdaysand anniversaries justlike everyone else.

What I've learned over the years is that learningto accept each othersfaults - and choosing to celebrate each othersdifferences - is one of themost important keys to creating a healthy, growingand lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you willlearn to take the good, thebad and the ugly parts of your life. Because in theend, you are the master ofyour own life, to be happy or unhappy, to bepositive or negative. We could extend this to any relationship. In fact,understanding is the baseof any relationship, be it a husband-wife orparent-child or friendship!

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own."

So Please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burnt onewill do just fine ......

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Life is like having a cup of tea.You sit by the side of the window, lift the cup and take a careless sip,Only to realize, somebody forgot to put the sugar.Too lazy to go for it you somehow struggle through the sugarless cup.Until you discover un-dissolved sugar crystal sitting at the bottom...